必知之事 (二)

(1)去別人家裡,不要坐在人家的床上。
(2)在酒桌上與別人碰杯,自己的杯子一定要低於對方的,特別是對方是長輩或領導。
(3)晴帶雨傘,飽帶乾糧,未雨綢繆總是好的。
(4)如果問別人話,別人不回答你,不要死著臉皮不停的問。
(5)吃飯的時候盡量不要發出聲音。
(6)撿東西或者穿鞋時候要蹲下去,不要彎腰撅屁股。
(7)別人批評你的時候,即使他是錯的,也不要先辨駁,等大家都平靜下來再解釋。
(8)做事情要適可而止,無論是狂吃喜歡的食物還是鬧脾氣。
(9)到朋友家吃完飯,要主動幫忙洗碗清理桌子,主人做飯已經很辛苦了,不能事後還讓主人清理。
(10)生活中會遇見各式各樣的人,你不可能與每個人都合拍,但是有一點是四海皆準的:你如何對待別人,別人也會如何對待你。
(11)待客不得不大,持家不得不小。
(12)把拳頭收回來是為了更有力的還擊。
(13)人活在這個世上,首先要學會一個“忍”字。
(14)任何時候對任何人不要輕易告訴對方你的秘密。
(15)錢不是靠攢的,會花才會賺。
(16)學無止境,不僅僅是學書本知識,更要學會怎麼待人處事,社會遠比你想像的要復雜。
(17)不要跟同事議論上司或其他同事的是非,你的無心之言很可能成為別人打擊你的證據。
(18)做事情,做好了是你的本分,做的不好就是你失職
(19)只有錯買,沒有錯賣。不要只顧著貪小便宜。
(20)有時候孤單是正常的,不要害怕,要自己調劑。
(21)有真正的朋友,但不知你有沒有福氣遇到。不管有沒有遇到,都不要否認它。不要算計別人,尤其不要算計自己喜歡的人。對自己喜歡的人,不要使用手段去得到。
(22)最勇敢的事情是認清了生活的真相之後依舊熱愛生活。不要害怕欺騙,但要知道世界上存在欺騙。
(23)借錢的時候,心裡要有個底,就是要想著這個錢是回不來的。所以藉出去的錢永遠要在自己能承受的損失範圍之內。可以承受的數字以內,即使回不來,也是心裡早準備好的。自己不能承受損失的數目,就不能藉。
(24)最好的朋友之間,除非他窮的吃不了飯了,否則最好不要有經濟往來。許多可貴的友誼都敗壞在錢上。
(25)君子可寓意於物,但不可留意於物。
(26)出門在外能忍則忍,退一步海闊天空。
(27)擦桌子的時候要往自己的方向抹。
(28)打電話接電話第一句話一定要是:「餵,您好」;掛電話的時候等別人先掛。
(29)一次不忠 百次不容。
(30)不隨地吐痰扔東西,如果沒有垃圾箱,就拎回家扔垃圾筒裡。
(31)多看書對心靈有益,你會看到一個更廣闊的世界。
(32)是你去適應社會,不是社會來適應你。
(33)不要讓別人知道自己的真實想法,要笑在人前笑,要哭一個人躲起來哭。
(34)走路手不要插在口袋裡。
(35)簡單的事情複雜做,複雜的事情簡單做。
(36)機會只留給有準備的人,天上不會掉餡餅。
(37)不管什麼條件下,仔細刷牙,特別是晚上。
(38)早上一定要吃早餐,沒有早餐喝杯水也一定要。
(39)少說別人是非,把自己管牢。
(40)你是無價之寶。
(41)女生,和男孩子出去要自己買單。
(42)要對自己的行為負責,不要怨天由人,在做之前要想想應不應該,出了事要學會自己解決。
(43)要想人前顯貴,必先人後受罪。

Fear of the Lord.

Oh, that they had such a heart in them that they would fear me, and always keep all my commandments. Deuteronomy 5:29
  1.  It is impossible to draw near to God if there is a lack of holy fear.
  2. The evidence of this fear is obedience to His commandments.
Drawing near to God always begins in our heart and manifests in our obedience!

[extracted from Drawing Near by John Bevere]

Blessings overflown

(Picture taken from Andrea)



I enjoyed every moment of the fellowship we have together. It's such a blessing from above indeed.

Lots of love. :)

What's happening this week?


A Super Brief Summary: Reign Through Prophetic Prayer Conference
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. - Matthew 6:10
The earth is created to be like the heaven. But sins came in and we lost our dominion to the satan. Strongman is placed on top of each of the seven mountains - Religion, Family, Education, Government, Business, Entertainment, and Media. We as the children of God have a mandate to call unto Him and to align with His wills for us. We, therefore, must exercise our authority to bind these strongmen and to loose the resources in heaven for our spiritual warfare. As the body of Christ begins to rise their voice (to intercede), they can rip off the covers placed by the evil spirits and restore His kingdom on earth!

If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power forever and ever. Amen. (1 Peter 4:11)

The war has already been won through the crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus Christ but we need to continue to war to reinforce the victory. Remember, we are not judged by our sins (as we are all new creations by His blood), but by whether or not we have accomplished His calling for us, our assignments.

A side note:
Revelation through conviction brings transformation. Transformation through courage brings manifestation and then reformation. Thus, it is very important for us to be able to hear (accurately) from God.

Firstfruits
And this could be your money, time, talents, etc.
 Bring the best of the firstfruits of your soil to the house of the Lord your God. - Exodus 23:19
Firstfruits is the first produce of a harvest. It was collected and stored in a safe place so in case of any kind of plagues, the farmers could use it to produce new set of crops. To put it simply, it served as a guarantee to the farmers.

To give your firstfruits to the Lord means to trust Him with everything you have.

A reminder to keep my pledge
To give the first 30 minutes (at least) to the Lord everyday.

Proud of you, still.

 

No more Baskin Robbins, no more holiday (I'm having holiday today anyways :P but that's not the point), so what? Your hard work and sacrifices cannot be measured by all these, neither is your love for the country.


There shouldn't be any more criticism or condemnation. Though losing the match, through it you have gained so much more. You have done your best, well done!
Thank you and God blesses you, Dato' Lee Chong Wei.

Do what you preach

You don't want to announce to the whole world that you are a Christian, then you show them no difference from being a non-believer. That is hypocritical.

追隨

總有一天,我一定要能追得上你的腳步!我要讓你看見我!所以不要太早結婚哦。> <

Different Destiny?

There are many times I'd wonder, in a group of people of the same age, why some can be extremely successful (i.e. at the peak of the careers of their own choice, able to have their own sources of income, etc.) but the others remain ordinary or even worse off?

To me, the world is quite an unfair place to be in. Not all can pursue their own dreams because there are always too much to concern. Dreams are for the rich - hard to deny, the thought has been implanted in my mind ever since I learned to reason and to comprehend. Whether or not you can afford your education (tuition fees), career prospects, income, the list goes on. One cannot simply decide their future without taking every thing else into serious consideration. "Just follow your heart." Candidly speaking, it takes great faith to do so.

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On a side note, I sincerely felt extremely happy when my mum told me one of my childhood friends, though we have not stayed in contact for quite some times, she still remembers me. Wee~ Again, it's always the little things that cheer me up. :D

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Ah, and partners! I have been observing how couples treat one another, how they behave behind their another halves, how they have changed after entering a relationship, etc. Every one has different love languages, each expresses differently. Others may not apprehend it but it doesn't really matter. The two are the only main characters. If there is ever a third party interfering, let it be God and Him alone. A foundation laid on the I Am is the strongest one after all. Apart from that, it really takes love, trust, faith and time to build and sustain a relationship.

I guess I have been thinking a great deal lately but who cares. *Chuckles*
Goodnight, peeps. God bless you all. :)

Frustration & Disappointment

Sometimes, when your hard work doesn't pay off, you just need to work harder.
Though it may mean to work your ass off.