I agree with her that a (any) relationship should be kept between just the two of them.
It is pointless to make public whatsoever problems that the two of you are/have encountered because both of you are responsible to solve the problems together, not the third party. And by sharing it, what benefits can you acquire? I don't think people will actually give a damn about it. Oh, maybe they will enquire (in the name of "I'm really worry/concern about you") out of curiosity and their gossiping nature, but nothing more. Sure you can ask for advice from those who are more mature or have came across the same problems and have overcame it. But the bottomline is that you are still the ones making the final decisions, Together. Be firm not to be manipulated by those who are not supposed to get involved.
Between the two of you,
there should be mutual respect and trust.
In between the two of you,
there shouldn't be another person's pressure, opinions, assumptions and expectations.
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