My Dream Guy, My Inspiration
Oh well, everyone knows I'm so, so, so crazy over this one guy recently. It is unreciprocated and it might just stay in my world of fantasy forever, though I don't wish for that to happen. I know I'm attracted to not only his appearance (because one should never focus on the outlook only), but also his music, his style, his attitude, etc. Except for some habits/conducts which I'm not very fond of, he is almost ideal.
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| Still a mummy's boy. :3 |
Today, particularly, while I was reading one of the articles about him, I thought to myself, "Wow, he sure is a tough one!" Tough as in his character/ability to withstand pressure and to keep growing. Yes, there were some negative news about him but if those have now made him a better person, why not?
And his answer to the question concerning colour has really strucked me that in life, we shouldn't be just the colour that we like/wish to be like. We should be the canvas, ready to be painted differently. We are all on our journey of growing up (even if you are a 70-year-old now, there are still plenty to be learned!), and if you refuse to try different colours in between your birth and death, I would say, "What a shame!" Flexibility. That's the word. We need to be willing and humble enough to be moulded (for the better) by the happenings and also people we meet throughout. Don't let the fear for a change hinders you. At some point of our life, we need to step out of our comfort zone and take up risks. Robert Schuller puts it just nice saying that, "If you listen to your fears, you will die never knowing what a great person you might have been."
At the end of the day, we all should be able to declare proudly that we have finished the race and accomplished what we are called to do, not just simply, but with aces.
My Mr. Right
My previous posts may sound as if I'm in dire of having a partner, but no. That is not true. It is true that sometimes loneliness strikes me straight in my face but I wouldn't say that that's the reason for me to quit me being single. At least I'm able to say, in this one or two years, I won't be stepping into any boy-girl relationships.
I have missions to fulfill in this particular season of my life and not being attached is, I think, the prerequisite. When the time comes, I believe my Mr. Right will drop from the sky like the fairy tales. *Laugh* I'm just kidding. God will arrange our meeting with each other. I reject the idea of you need to meet a few Mr. Wrongs or Mr. Maybes before you bump into your Mr. Right because you simply will need to know what kind of person suits you. That's ridiculous and it's only an excuse to escape from the consequences of your own lustful behaviour. Take heart, every time you breakup with a person, you are breaking the covenant/oath you have made with him/her. Relationships and marriages are just not something you can toy with for it is written,
So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate. Matthew 19:6Protect the heart of your another half. If you are not ready and have no confidence that you will never make him/her brokenhearted, don't jump it.
Wait.
Homesick
I admit I'm a little bit infected. Somehow my immunity against the illness has deteriorated. The syndrome of it I believe is becoming more irascible and impatient. Sigh. I need to change. Self-control. Self-control. Self-control. *Chanting*
Especially during festive seasons, I wish to celebrate with my family. And now that my mummy's birthday is so near, I want to be by her side. Wish she can still feel my love for her across the sea.
Also, food! I'm seriously missing a lot here.
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